Ruining my social life

UGH!!! I hate making decisions that are good for my voice but bad for my social life. I am actually stepping back from doing things because the environment is too loud or I will be to tempted to talk alot. It is ruining my social life. I know it is a short time in the scheme of life but often feel all alone in the struggle. Yes, I am having a pity party right now. I will get over it and enjoy the solitude but if you can tell me when that would be great???